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Top 10 Flirting Tips★

1. Choose Your Targets
You don't have to have a crush on
someone in order to flirt. Practice
flirting with random people you see
every day - people who might not even
be on your dating radar - on order to
hone your skills. That way, you'll have
some flirting experience under your
belt when you approach the people
who really matter.

2. Have an Opening Line
Find a reason to talk to the person. If
you're in a class with them, come up
with a question about an assignment.
If they're standing in line behind you
at a concert, ask about the band. Get
creative, and be ready to respond to
whatever they say.

3. Make Eye Contact
If you don't make eye contact, you'll
look bored or uninterested, and that's
not an impression you want to give.
Too shy to look them right in the eyes?
Here's a trick: look at the spot right
between their eyes. It'll look like eye
contact to them.

4. Come Up With a Compliment
Pick one thing you like about the way
they look - like their hair, their smile or
an article of clothing. Let them know
in a friendly way how much you like it.
It'll make them feel good and will open
them up to you. (If you can't think of
an opening line for tip #2, a
compliment will do.)

5. Smile
You don't have to go all Bozo the
Clown, but the idea is to look like you
enjoy talking to them. So be sure to
throw them a smile whenever it makes
sense. If they shoot one back, you'll
know that they like talking to you, too.

6. Flirt With Your Body
The body language you use when you
flirt is just as important as what you
say. Use good posture, point your body
towards the person and try to find
excuses to touch them.

7. Keep It Light
You'll get a way better response if you
chat about fun, happy stuff (like your
new puppy) than serious or sad stuff
(like when your puppy got hit by a
train). The point of flirting isn't to bare
your soul or share your honest
opinions about everything. It's to open
the door to lots more conversations
down the road.

8. Beware of Awkward Silences
Once the convo drags, it's probably
gone for good. Fill an awkward silence
by asking the other person a question.
Can't think of one? Ask them about
something they're wearing or
something in your environment (like a
painting on the wall, or the music
that's playing).

9. Wrap It Up
If you're not interested in talking
anymore, politely find an excuse to
head off into the sunset. If you are
interested, give them a way to get in
touch with you - like your phone
number or Facebook name. This is
(hopefully) just your first convo of
many, so save some of that charm for
the next time.

10. Practice, Practice, Practice
No one's perfect at flirting the first
time around. If the idea of flirting still
gives you butterflies, don't worry - it
just means that you need more
practice. The more you flirt, the easier
it'll get.

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