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♥how to please a woman♥

Okay, so it is true. Women can be
complicated creatures. But what
human being isn ’t? Although we
each have our own needs, quirks
and foibles, when it comes down
to it, there are a few basic things
that every woman wants. Now
it ’s up to the men to pay
It’s amazing to me how many
articles, television shows, movies,
songs, and books exist about
male and female relationships.
And how sadly accurate many of
them are. With all this material
out there, why do so many
problems still exist between men
and women?
The Gender Gap
Men aren’t listening. And I don’t
really blame them. I don’t even
like Sex and the City so I can’t
expect my boyfriend to faithfully
watch every episode and quote it
like some almighty dating bible.
Although that show is full of
things that men would
(rightfully) cringe at, there are
points to heed. Namely, cliches
exist for a reason.
The things that seem painfully
obvious to women are going
unnoticed by men, likely because
they haven ’t spent hours happily
identifying with women
indulging in insecurities and
sharing laughs about terrible
dates. So women – give your
man a break here and realize
that although you feel inundated
with ideas for dating, romance
and sex, many men have put the
blinders on because those things
just don ’t seem important to
them. That is, until they are left
out in the cold, heartbroken
because the girl of their dreams
gave them the boot for
seemingly no reason.
Pay Attention Boys
Here’s the thing – women want a
few basic things: trust, loyalty,
friendship, laughs, respect. And a
satisfying sex life. Nothing earth
Here’s where we get annoyed –
when things about women that
seem built into pop culture,
escape your minds. I understand
that you may not want to watch
Oprah and see every “chick flick”
out there but there are certain
things that you really should
know by now.
To clarify:
· We do not like to be called fat.
· We need foreplay.
· We like to be called if you are
going to be
late. These
are three little things that can
make a huge difference in a
relationship. Maybe they don ’t
seem like a big deal to you men
or maybe you don ’t understand,
but we don’t need you to. Just do
them. Please.
Be a Gentleman
If you want to go above and
beyond the basics, it ’s also good
to keep in mind that women like
to be treated nicely. Again, I
wouldn ’t think you’d have to be
told and I’m sure many of you
don’t, but lately I’ve been hearing
some pretty incredible stories
from friends. In one story, a guy
asked my friend out, took her to
a bar, ordered her a drink and
then summoned her to come pay
for hers. Boy was she swept off
her feet!
Don’t get me wrong, neither she,
nor I, nor most women are
looking for Mr. Fancy Pants to
wine and dine us and spend all
his money on us. Negative
stereotypes of men and women
don ’t help us get any closer to
understanding each other. It’s
not the saved money and free
drinks we appreciate, it ’s the
chivalry, the extra effort. That
little gesture that says I care. It
doesn ’t have to be monetary, it
can be holding a door, a
compliment, even just turning off
the cell phone while you are out
Mutual Appreciation
I’m sure no man goes out with
the intention of annoying a girl
or being insensitive. There are
differences between how men
and women relate, so it should
be expected on both ends by
now that things don ’t always
progress seamlessly.
The effort really does make a
difference. We are all from
different walks of life and have
different expectations for each
other and for life in general.
Women want to be appreciated,
as I’m sure men do. It may seem
crazy to you if a girl flies off the
handle because you were an
hour late, but the thing is,
women can be a little crazy.
Evidently unbeknownst to some
of you, women spend hours
primping and preparing for
dates, for our boyfriends, even
for our husbands. Legs must be
shaved, makeup applied, hair
done so that we feel attractive
and sexy for you!
If a woman does something nice
for you and you notice, (please
tell me you notice), tell her. If she
cooks you dinner, try to return
the favor. Be honest and
supportive and she will do the
same for you.

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