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♥understanding ur gf♥

Women are complex creatures,
sometimes frustratingly so. There
are times when we make the
men in our lives want to throw
up their hands in defeat and say,
"I'll just never understand what
women want!"
Don't give up hope. Sometimes
the key to understanding your
girl is to read between the lines
of what she's saying to discover
what she really means.
It's not entirely our fault that we
have this round about way of
communicating. Boys are taught
from a young age that asking for
what they want is the best way
to get it, while girls are
encouraged to use our "feminine
wiles" to maneuver our way into
what our heart desires.
It doesn't help that a
straightforward persistent
woman in our society is often
tagged with unfair labels like
"bitch" or "ball breaker". So
instead of being direct, we
sometimes take the long way to
getting to what we really mean.
To help you understand, there
are certain things you can look
for to help you decode the
meaning behind your girlfriend's
She Wants To Be Babied
"I had a really busy day" = "I
need some pampering"
When your girl complains about
her long hard day, there's a good
chance it's not just to get it off
her chest. She wants you help
her relax, but instead of just
asking you for a back massage,
or to run her a hot bath, she
feigns helplessness so you'll be
able to sweep in as her man and
fix everything for her.
It's hard for a modern feminist
woman to ask for help from her
man. We all want to believe we
can take care of ourselves, but
there are times when we just
want to be coddled a little bit. So,
instead of being annoyed by her
whining, do the smart thing and
ask her what she needs to
unwind. Trust me, you'll reap the
rewards later.
It's Time to Talk
"I don't feel like talking" = "I
really NEED to talk"
You can tell something is
bothering your girl, but when
you ask she says nothing is
wrong. Don't be fooled, she really
does need to talk. She just wants
you to press her a little. If you
insist on asking what's wrong it
convinces her that you really
want to hear about her problems
and help resolve them.
Try to encourage her to open up
without nagging. Instead, let her
know that you are concerned
and open to listening. She really
does want to tell you about the
fight she had with her best
friend or how much getting
passed over for that promotion
at work upset her, but unless you
show genuine interest, she'll
probably keep it bottled up.
The only time this translation
may not be accurate is when
she's upset about something you
did. In this case, she may really
need some space and time to
think before she confronts you
with it.
She's Feeling Insecure
"I'm not jealous" = "I need
You've just run into your ex-
girlfriend while walking down
the street with your current one.
You can tell that the unexpected
meeting has your girl frazzled,
but she insists she's not
What NOT to do in this situation
is accuse her of being mistrustful
or joke about how cute she is
when she's jealous. The right
thing to do here is to reassure
her of your love and devotion
without being too obvious about
it. Try something like, "Wow,
seeing Suzy again just makes me
realize how perfect you and I are
She Wants to Get Serious
"So are we like together?" = "I
want a commitment"
Stereotypically, guys are all
commitment phoebes while their
girls are fervently awaiting him
dropping to one knee in the
perfect moment of romantic
dedication. This may not be
universally true, but there's a
good chance she's looking
toward the next stage in your
relationship before you've even
entertained the concept.
Not wanting to come on too fast
or too strong, she'll probably be
fairly hesitant to come right out
and say she'd like to be your
girlfriend or that she thinks that
it's time you moved in together.
Make it easy on her by being
honest and clear about your
feelings and intentions. If you're
not quite ready to pledge
monogamy, say so, but tell her
that you think it's a big step,
something you don't want to
take lightly.
Ask for some time to think about
it. Never make a commitment
that you're not willing to follow
through on. If you're not done
playing the field, don't give the
impression that you are. It will
only lead to heartbreak.

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