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♥how to rekindle ur long time love?♥

A happy, long-term relationship
is great and something we all
want. However, even the best
and happiest long term
relationships can suffer from
routine sex.
The sex might be good, but it is
not what it used to be nor is it
everything that it could be. While
you might be content, what you
really want is a way to spice
things up and turn your good
sex life into a fantastic sex life –
and keep it that way.
Be Spontaneous
If you want it, do it. I don’t mean
drop whatever you are doing
and have sex wherever you
happen to be when the urge
strikes you – that might be
inadvisable, particularly if you
happen to be in public, or
surrounded by children.
Instead, let sex sometimes take
priority over other trivial things
that you normally would want to
get done first. If you can afford
the time, be ten minutes late to
work because you were having a
morning quicky. If you are
cleaning up, watching television,
or paying bills stop what you are
doing, put it out of your mind
and give into your desires.
If it can wait – and most often it
really can – then let it wait.
Try Something New
This applies to what you do in
the bedroom as much as to time
spent out of it. Outside of the
bedroom try doing something
that both of you have never done
before. Go sky diving, rock
climbing, try new food, take
dance lessons, travel. Spending
exciting quality time together
serves to cement your bond and
makes physical intimacy that
much more fulfilling.
In the bedroom, spend some
time talking candidly about your
fantasies, old and new. Try your
best not to judge each other so
that you can both be as open as
possible. At the same time don ’t
be afraid to say that you are
uncomfortable with something,
but express this in a non-
judgmental way in terms of
personal preference rather than
a put down.
Don’t say: “Ewww what kind of
weirdo would want that? I can’t
believe I’ve been dating you for
(fill in the blank)!” Try to say:
“Interesting, but just not my
Once you have found something
new you both want to try,
explore it fully and enjoy!
Dress Up
Once you’ve found someone it’s
easy to slack off in terms of your
physical appearance. While it ’s
healthy to be able to be around
someone with bad hair in
crummy clothes, it ’s equally
important to take some time
every now and again to try.
You might want to wear
something sexy to bed, work on
toning your body, or get dressed
up for a night out on the town.
Compliment Each Other
Pretty much everyone likes to be
told they are good-looking. Some
are more modest than others but
you would be hard pressed to
find someone who truly dislikes
being told that they are
Compliments help build self-
esteem and a more confident
lover will be more likely to try
new and exciting things or
throw themselves into what they
are doing.
Also, giving compliments helps
both partners feel appreciated,
needed and loved. Often, once
you have been with someone for
a while it is easy to forget to
compliment them as often as you
used to, the rationale being
something along the lines of:
“ well I told them before and they
know it”.
It’s always pleasant to be
reminded and to be reassured of
the fact that your lover feels as
attracted to you now as they did
on day one.
Teasing & Foreplay
Don’t always get right to it.
Sometimes, getting what you
want right away can be
tremendously satisfying.
However, if you are always
instantly satisfied, you might
begin to take sex and your
partner for granted. You will
begin to feel entitled and sex will
become just something you
In order to prevent this from
happening, or remedy it once it
has, build up to the moment.
Tease each other throughout the
day. Express desire without
immediately fulfilling it. Once you
have each other alone, cuddle,
kiss and make out for as long as
you can before actually getting
down to business.
Forget About the Bed
This pretty much means have sex
anywhere but on your bed. Try
the floor, a chair, the kitchen
table, the shower, or if you are
feeling particularly risqué, do it
I’ve heard some pretty bizarre
locations mentioned, among
them: the mall after hours, a tree
in a field, on a building, a forest
and a golf course at night. It ’s
not necessary to go quite so
extreme; the main point is to
explore intimacy in a location
that you would not normally.

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