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||| psychology & emotions |||

"Relationship Science: Find Your Mate with Attachment Theory

A version of attachment theory, better known for parent-child bonding, can teach us adults a lot about forming more enduring romantic relationships"

We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some relationships sail smoothly along while others are more like a storm tossed voyage?

In their book Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find – and Keep -- Love, authors Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller reveal how an understanding of adult attachment–the most advanced relationship science to date–can help us find and sustain love.

Attachment research designates three main "attachment styles," or manners in which people perceive and respond to intimacy in romantic relationships. Basically, "secure" people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. "Anxious" people crave intimacy, are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner’s ability to love them back. "Avoidant" people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
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Love, the prominent component of human emotional spectrum, is a very little understood phenomenon. For thousands of year many stalwarts, philosopher tried their level best to understand the fundamental concepts and origin of human emotions. Human emotions are categorised into two basic block, (i) fundamental & basic components of human emotion. (ii) derived & complex components of human emotion.

. Love at first sight is a phenomena that baffles philosophers and thinkers throughout the ages! Does love at first sight exist? If so, then what are the reasons behind this? Why people feel strong attractions in some cases if they are even unknown to each other. A lot of movies have been made on this particular theme. READ MORE


||| fundamentals of love and attraction |||

Human always want to love and be loved but no one can actually define love in a deterministic way. But with the advent of modern science with an technology like MRI that domain of the most complex structure slowly started to revealing its shades... and surprisingly could relate certain. read more


"Being Loved is the Greatest Sensation! most of us are already aware of the intensity of love, we also know the sensation, the rise of heart beat, the sweating during chilling weather are not very strange phenomena experienced by the persons in love. They are the outcome of our faster metabolism occured during the period of crisis. These sensation is no doubt, great, but don't you think that the sensation of being loved intensely by your partner" read more


poem: when night arrives, and darkness slowly invades all around, the ray of hope is your gleaming face, beaming me bright to gather my vigour, And then there will be you with me, and thus our journey started. READ MORE


"If I had one wish I would give you a long and tender kiss
& if I had two wishes then I would choose to do it over again..."
.........ȹ sarpyl ȸ read more

I don’t believe we’ve met yet. But when we do, and I know we will, you will be the most important person in my life. I can promise you now that it won’t be love at first sight, nor will it necessarily be easy— nothing has come easy in my life. But I will fall in love with you and your flaws. You will fall in love with me and mine. I will love you not because you are pretty, or because you are easy to talk to, or fun to hang out with; I’m sure you will be all those things, but it won’t be what I fall in love with. READ MORE

My dear Sona,
I know I often irritate you, create problem for you being unable to live with out you, with out your calls, but this time I thought if I try to speak through phone, it would be suicidal for both of us and I remained dumb carrying a hurricane storming within me, piercing my heart into a dust. You know, you are the most important person in my life. Although our wasn't a love at first site, nor it was very easy to get you in my life. READ MORE


standing here at a break of dawn
watching the golden sun
slowly break out of its “trap”
i close my eyes

i close my eyes
and see images streaming in of
incidents, events, people
from the past and the present

the past just whizzes by
stopping only to remind me of
the mistakes that had happened
and those that i had once done

"I was never a net-savvy person till 2006, but then circumstances forced me to become netaholics". When for the first time I had decided to open an website, then I hardly knew anything at depth about Internet and computer, in fact computer was an anathema to me. One may wonder at this, as I am an Engineer, and my alma mater is a famous college of India. Still the reason of my ignorance were the fact that I am an Mechanical Engineer and when I had graduated, it was the dawn of IT success in India. We had FORTRAN-77, but we were not tought any programming languages, neither any Operating System. read more

||| about relations: the bonding of love! |||
"Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident." read more

when night arrives, and darkness slowly invades all around, the ray of hope is your gleaming face, beaming me bright to gather my vigour,
And then there will be you with me, and thus our journey started. read more

||| Gestalt Psychology or gestaltism |||
(German: Gestalt - "form" or "whole") of the Berlin School is a theory of mind and brain positing that the operational principle of the brain is holistic, parallel, and analog, with self-organizing tendencies, or that the whole is different from the sum of its parts. The Gestalt effect refers to the form-forming capability of our senses, particularly with respect to the visual recognition of figures and whole forms instead of just a collection of simple lines and curves. In psychology, gestaltism is often opposed to structuralism and Wundt. Often, the phrase "The whole is greater than the sum of the parts" is used when explaining Gestalt theory. READ MORE

||| ABSTRACT PAINTINGS: Pablo Picasso |||
Pablo Diego José Francisco de Paula Juan Nepomuceno María de los Remedios Cipriano de la Santísima Trinidad Ruiz y Picasso (25 October 1881 – 8 April 1973) was a Spanish painter, draughtsman, and sculptor. He is one of the most recognized figures in 20th-century art. He is best known for co-founding the Cubist movement and for the wide variety of styles embodied in his work. Among his most famous works are the proto-Cubist Les Demoiselles d'Avignon (1907) and Guernica (1937), his portrayal of the German bombing of Guernica during the Spanish Civil War. READ MORE

||| METAPHYSICS : The Foundation of Philosophy. |||
What is Metaphysics? It is the study of the one substance that necessarily exists and causes / connects the many material things we observe. It is useful to quote Aristotle since he first formalised the subject of metaphysics.
The first philosophy (Metaphysics) is universal and is exclusively concerned with primary substance. ... And here we will have the science to study that which is just as that which is, both in its essence and in the properties which, just as a thing that is, it has. The entire preoccupation of the physicist is with things that contain within themselves a principle of movement and rest. And to seek for this is to seek for the second kind of principle, that from which comes the beginning of the ...
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