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=◆=How to Fall in Love=◆=

How to Fall in Love
L'amour... love... it's the subject of songs, poetry, paintings, movies, and literature. How do you go about falling in love? Well, that's hard to say, but there are some things you can do to let yourself open up to all the possibilities love has to offer.
Meet a lot of people . The first key to fallingin love is finding someone to fall in love with. The personyou love will most likely be your best friend or someone that you have known for a while. Try hard not to fall in "love at first sight" - it's romantic, but it isn't very smart.
Give it time . Let's assume you've been going to parties, events, etc., and your friends have been introducing you to people they think youwill be interested in. Don't rush the process. Take your time and be friendly and open to everyoneyou meet. Even if youaren't struck by a boltout of the blue the first time, you may find yourself developing an attraction to someone you wouldn't normally have been that interested in just from one meeting. This can signal a person (and a relationship) of depthand substance. Letting things unfold for a little while can make you more open to different people. And remember, opposites may attract.
Take the plunge . Ask him or her out. Don't worry that you will be turned down - andnever allow yourself to be intimidated by extreme beauty or social status. If s/he seems interested in you despite the fact that you consider yourself ordinary while you consider him or her extraordinary, remember that you are a worthy person with much to offer. It's no big wonder that s/he would find you interesting, fun, and attractive! Remember everyone is unique and so are you.
Open yourself to love . Now that you've been dating a little while, and you've found many common interests, allow yourself to open further. Share your heart, your dreams, your fears. Let your love in, to soothe your fears, support your dreams, and believe in you, as youbelieve in him or her. Holding back at this stage will only result in many tears and theerection of barriers that may never fall - allow yourself to open up and be vulnerable and transparent. This is the only way to find out for sure if the person you are fallingin love with can be trusted with your most valuable resource: your heart. Let him/her know who you actually are.

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