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11.he is not loving it

QUESTION: I'm a 25 year old Top gay. I started a relationship with a versatile guy more than a year ago. We didn't have any problem with having sex together when I used to just fuck him. Then he insisted to be my top and I accepted it. The problem is that after many months I don't like getting fucked at all! I never never enjoy it although I've heard it could be so joyful for every one. Another problem is that I almost always have bleeding when he fucks me although his dick just average. Please tell me first how I can stop this bleeding and then how I can enjoy getting fucked.


ANSWER: Sam, you should never have bleeding when you are being fucked - this is nature's way of showing you that something is wrong! Bleeding often occurs when you are too tight and not relaxed enough and part of the anus gets scratched and opens and bleeds. Also it takes a week or so for this to heal so you shouldn't have anal sex for a while if you have been bleeding otherwise it will make it worse. You need to give your body time to heal.

You need to think about whether you actually want to be fucked or whether you would prefer to be top only. Having said that being passive is actually a state of mind. When you really want it you can take practically anything and that means much bigger dicks too! The fact that your boyfriend has an average size dick means that it is not so difficult to be fucked by him - it would be much much more difficult if he had 9"!!

There are many various psychological reasons why guys don't like being fucked. It can be to do with a bad experience in the past, down to doctrines instilled at an early age from society or religion or it could be to do with accepting yourself as someone who is able to be submissive. Maybe it is the wrong point in your life to be a passive guy! You really need to want to be fucked and when you do then this will make you an excellent bottom.

You could help yourself by talking about the problem with your boyfriend and discussing it openly together. He should be much more gentle with you so that you don't bleed and make sure you use loads of lube as that is very important. He should also go very slowly and you need to tell him to stop if it is painful.



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