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67.HOW CAN LIVE A NORMAL LIFE?

its_tanyaa@ yahoo. co...> wrote:
hey m a gay.. we r conventinal ppl.. and i wil
be forced to marry.. they dont know m gay.. can i
have sex with ma life normally??


ANS.
A.chettymarks@ yahoo.com. au> wrote:

if you are forced to marry, then you will marry.
your only choice then is to have sex with your wife
if you are able to, or explain to her what your
situation is. if you cannot tell her, then you must
either live life as a married man and don't have
sex, or get married and find a boyfiend to sneek
around with.
personally, i don't see how you can be forced to
marry. i would not even think about dealing with any
family members who could not accept me for what i
am. you should tell you family and move on if they
don't accept you. If you cannot tell your family,
then i'm guessing you are screwed.
good luck to both of you. you have my pitty...to a
point.
best bet....deal with it and move to a better
life. what ever part of the world you live in, if it
won't let you live your life the way you were born,
the you should escape from it. I realize that's easy
for me to say, since my family was ok with it, but i
do know that i could not love or respect anybody who
didn't approve of something i had no control over...

B.Its a tough situation since some cultures are not very
open and are very orthodox.

In your situation I would recommend that you tell your
family about your sexuality in steps. By that I mean,
first try telling them you are not ready for marriage
yet and you still have to do so much more in life
including ( tell them about your academic or other
things that you and your family value). Tell them you
need some more time before you can decide this and you
are just not ready for this relationship yet.

This might give you some time. You currently need to
think about yourself and what you want to do in life.
You need to decide what is more important to you! what
makes you feel happy. Parents are important too. After
all they have raised you and must have done a lot for
you since the day you were born.

So you need to decide what is more important to you.
Remember it is all about you. If you feel that you can
be happy living with a certain person than may be it
is time for you to move on. if you currenlty work move
out to a different city, talk to your sex partner and
see how your partner thinks about you moving with in a
different place.

try something like that. In a worst case scenario, if
you feel you can live two lives ( a married life and a
life with your other partner) than that is something
you might just have to do.

But whatever you decide to do, just remember, choose
something that makes you feel happy. Just don't ruin
your life for a partner.. because partner often leaves
you since they are not in any legal relationship with
you.

I hate to admit but some of us do live in socities
where many things are not acceptable. Therefore if you
want to do something that is not acceptable you might
just have to do it in a hidden way until the society
starts accepting it.

hope it helps.. good luck
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