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5.ANAL INTERCOURSE TECHNIQUES


Let me say right off that the best way to learn anal intercourse it
sot do it. Keep in mind that the ways of sharing sex must be
developed; they don't spring fully formed into the mind. Yet the
basic actions of the intercourse are easy and simple, as they are
for every kind of sex. That is, all the necessary information is
already in you; you need only learn how to being it out, to
overcome any confusions and develop rapport with your partner(s).
It's the prohibitions, the guilts and the complexities in our
society and each of us that prevent us knowing and doing what we
want. Again, it's a matter of good consciousness, feeling relaxed,
and wanting to explore, to get into it.

Anal intercourse involves two people, who between them create the
pleasures. At any one time, one person will have his penis in the
other's ass; this may be reversed later on. One or both (or at
certain times neither) persons will be moving. In the anal
intercourse I will discuss, both partners want to engage in it, and
they cooperate with each other. There's no such thing as a
"passive" and an "active" role; there is no dominant and no
submissive-these are false labels put on us by hostile outsiders.
Ass fucking is an act of creation where two are together. There is
a vast flexibility in who can do what, but there is no "one up/one
down" mentality unless you want that.

So you want to know how to do it? Here it is: you kneel on your
elbows and knees, and relax you ass such that your body wants to
take in your friend's erect penis. He kneels directly behind your
rear end, facing your way. He bends over you, guiding his
lubricated penis to your anus-opening, and then gently pushes it
inside as you draw it in. Then he causes his penis to slide up and
down inside by thrusting his hips back and forth, while you keep
still or rotate you hips in a side-to-side motion.

That's basically it. From the description, you might think the
penis person is having all the fun. That's no true. The ass-person
may be enjoying even more pleasure. There are two reasons for this:
the anus is very sensitive to erotic touch, like the lips; and the
inserted penis will massage a small gland behind the testicles,
called the prostate. When this gland is touched during sexual
arousal, the pleasurable feelings are multiplied in intensity.
Thus, during anal intercourse, powerful erotic feelings can flow
all through the body around the genitals, anus, and internal
organs; the rectum may begin contracting up and down in waves of
pleasure, causing an anal orgasm along with the genital one. the
penis-person can masturbate his partner; the ass-person can
masturbate himself, or he can even reach around to insert a finger
in his partner's anus - many possibilities are open, for you to
discover exactly what you like to do and enjoy, according to you
different wants and moods.

In other words, if you're new to it, it's best to learn in steps
and not to expect to know or do everything at once; usually it
takes months or years to feel and shape the many potential desires
and satisfactions. The basic act is simple, but out culture teaches
us to be so inhibited about sex, gay sex, and asses in particular
that some confusion may have to be worked through.

Once over this, new levels of meaning will be open to you. The fun
of sexual arousal and ejaculation is recreational, is
entertainment. Loss of ego sense )sense of "I") and dissolving into
another, when all thinking disappears and both your ecstasies merge
together, is affirmational, is centering, growthful, spiritual.
Wrapping your warm body around another, or to be so enfolded, with
torsos and legs, penis and ass, desire and care, feels good in
describable and indescribable ways, to the life/spirit/me. And this
is creative experience at its best.

Where to begin? By being candid with yourself, and that you want to
explore, and then finding a partner, a friend, a one-night stand,
whatever. You'll probably want to taste both roles, insertor and
insertee: you might find one more meaningful for you, or you might
like both.

I should mention here that all our explorations, indeed, any
suggestions given in this book, are meant as enjoyable adventures,
as good experiences. If anything turns into hard work, if you seem
driven to ignore your sensuality, and speed on in haste instead, or
get worried and upset, it's time to stop. To start over or talk to
someone, You can't force love, it unfolds. Oftentimes things have
to be learned, but if this is not enjoyable learning it's probably
not for you. Curiosity is your best bet here, and leave you
seriousness at the door - sodomy is an extra, not a pain in the
ass.

First, let me explain the basic position and motions that go with
them, then I'll discuss matters about the ass-person, the penis-
person. Let me go through each position, the motions that can be
used, and its advantages and disadvantages; these, of course, can
only be explained approximately, as people vary in what fits for
them.

One position I've already described, with the ass-person crouching
down to receive his friend from behind. The advantages are, easy
and fairly deep entry, and freedom of movements. This of the penis-
person include thrusting, grinding (rotating the hips circularly as
you'd do to play with a hoola-hoop), rocking (turning the pelvis
from left to right), and body motions like swaying from the knees.
These motions allow differing experiences for both partners. Those
of the ass-person include complementary thrusting (the same as for
the penis-person, except that your timing and his are slightly
off), counter-thrusting (where you push as he pulls), grinding or
rocking as he thrusts, and body movements. All these motions are
easy to learn, once you feel save enough to try them and someone
can help you a little.

The disadvantages of this position are both people having to hold
themselves up (getting tired and not having free hands), the penis
not pressing too much against the prostate, and not being face to
face (if that's important to you).

A variation on this position had the ass-person lying flat on his
stomach (with his hips raised a little on a pillow if you like).
This allows him to relax more and he has his hands free to do
whatever. The Penis-person lies on top and thus also can be more
relaxed and have free hands. However, penetration is not as easy
and you can't thrust as deeply. Also, the ass-person is weighed
down and restricted in how he can move, through the penis-person
can still more freely.

From this position, both partners can roll over on their sides,
still facing the same way, with one leg drawn up. This position
allows bodily relaxation plus free hands to explore and caress.
Also entry is easy and fairly deep, and avoids the one person
pressing fully on his friend. Movements are somewhat limited,
though vigorous thrusting is till easy once you get used to the
posture.

An interesting variation on this position has both partners on
their sides, but facing each other. Here the penis-person must
extend his pelvis between the other's bent legs. This position
allow deep entry and a full massage of the prostate. Also the hands
and mouths are free, and movement is fairly easy once insertion is
made.

then there is the full-front position, in which the ass-person lies
on his back, drawing his knees up to his chest and over the
shoulders of the penis-person, who presses down on him fact to face
(a pillow can be put under the pelvis to raise it even higher, or
the penis-person can push back his friend's feet over his head).
This position allows for easy penetration and very deep entry, a
good massage of the prostate, plus full movements by the penis-
person. However, the ass-person can't move much, though his hands
are free.

Another favorite position is a standing one, in which both friends
stand up, facing the same way, and the ass-person bends over at the
waist, using a wall table, or other support. This can also be done
on the knees rather than the feet, say, at the edge of the bed. If
both partners are not of the same height at the waist, some
adjustment will have to be made. This position is convenient to use
outdoors, and allows easy penetration and full movements, if
something solid is around to hold on to.

These are the basic positions; many others are also possible. Each
is different, and may vary for you in feelings and emotional
meaning. You might be specially thrilled by thrusting from behind,
wrapping around this backside, stroking his chest and stomach with
your hand. Or your love to unite may reach out strongest with him
entering you face to face, snug and kissing deeply.


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