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17.MASTURBATION TECHNIQUES WITH ANOTHER

MASTURBATION TECHNIQUES WITH ANOTHER

One of the most intimate an joyful experiences to share is mutual
masturbation. Lying with a friend, allowing yourself to be caressed
and stroked, he trusting you. openly, your hand holding his
testicles-you both masturbating yourself with his hand on your
thigh-there's a lot of meaning and experience here!

This is more than just a way to release sexual tension; it's being
and sharing, and maybe growing as well. All these are open for you
to explore, of you feel calm with him, save about yourself and your
desires.

If you feel rushed, slow down and see what happens. It is possible
to really savor the feel of his penis in your hand, it's touch and
thickness, firmness and warmth. Remember the masturbation fantasy
in the first section? Well, it's just as much fun to give it to
someone else, as to do it yourself. And you may learn quite a bit,
by seeing how another is similar and different to you. In the shape
and feel of his body, in the way he's aroused and climaxes, in his
sexual style.

Earlier on I spoke of people developing their individual way of
masturbating. You'll be surprised how much variety there is. Talk
with him, and find out how he likes you hand, if he'd rather you
held him differently, and so on. There's much to share, if you want
to open up.

Mutual masturbation can be close and wet, hot and fast, or it can
be much different, slow and relaxed for example. it's all a matter
of opening up to how you are at that moment, what you want and
need, Maybe you're scared, and just want to be held. Or perhaps
you're tired and would like him to jack you off casually. Or maybe
you really want to abandon yourself in love-making.
If you are uptight about masturbating, jacking-off while he watches
can be great therapy. Many of us tend to feel guilty about
masturbation, from having to hide it when we were younger. With
him, you can be open, and lose your fear to the light. And many of
us are also guilty about receiving pleasure- we feel we always
have to reciprocate, to give it back immediately. Try just lying
back sometimes and not doing a thing, and let him do everything;
just relax, just receive.

There are lots of other things you can do with masturbation. You
can massage his body all over. Each of you can masturbate himself
while you hold the other's testicles -some friends told me the had
highly spiritual/loving experiences during this. Also it can be a
lot of fun not taking your clothes off, as if you'd just met and
grabbed each other on the street, or with your underpants still on
(jockey shorts really turn me on). Another treat can be taking a
shower together, standing under the spigot masturbating each other
with plenty of soap. If you both like, you can massage his ass at
the same time. Since body tension can affect intensity of climax,
you can try different positions while being masturbated; sitting
up, crouching over him, or hanging from the ceiling for example.
You can fondle each other without climaxing. or without even
getting hard. this can be specially delightful and warm, as the
caring/trust/sharing comes more to the fore. You can even have a
lot of fun in public, seeing if you can fondle each other on the
bus or in a restaurant without anyone knowing.

There's almost always a free hand available, and it doesn't take
much energy. At times your arm might get a little tired; if this
happens, relax for a while. Masturbating someone else is different
than with yourself, because you aren't directly experiencing; you
must relay on him to let you know how it's going, and this may not
be clear. With yourself, it's simple to know when to speed up and
when to slow down to stop.

Discovering how to do this with someone else can be a fun
exploration. Ask him how he's doing. I've had times where the
person wasn't holding me right-his thumb wasn't quite in the right
place, and when I came it wasn't quite as good. It's OK not to be
the perfect sex partner, or have the perfect time. But don't be
afraid to complain, too. If you're jerking him off, stop when you
like, except if he's just before climax (coming). If you stop too
close to ejaculation, the process will continue anyway but the
experience might be second-rate. Other than this, I'd be pretty
loose about it and see what happens. Try experimenting with
different strokes and hand grips with and without oil. Cradling
his balls in the other hand and kissing him, all at the same time,
can be especially nice.

Learning to communicate sensations, wants, and needs is always an
important part of being with someone. It comes with experience and
relaxation. Remember that he can't read your mind, be directly
aware of your experiences, nor you with him. There is the space
between you to cross over. How you do it is up to you: words,
questions, grunts, moaning; don't just assume he knows what's
going on, or that you should know how he's doing without his
telling you-some people are rather quiet and might not say
anything. When in doubt, you can always ask and better to ask then
be fearful of relaxing your arm for moment.

Some question may come up about simultaneous orgasms, coming at the
same time. "Should we or shouldn't we?" My opinion is, it's nice
if it happens and nice if it doesn't. It's not always easy to know
when someone's going to climax, and it can be harder still to
coordinate two climaxes. Why let work take away from pleasure?
It's good to experiment with this and see what's most
satisfactory; for some couples it's easier than for others. The
best thing is usually to be loose about it, preferring spontaneity
over planning, and feeling over thinking. But by all means, if you
indulge in pleasure it's hard not to have a good time.

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RELATED MASTURBATION TECHNIQUES

I would like to mention some related ways to get off. These are
body rubbing, interfemoral intercourse, armpit/knee intercourse,
and moving on the perineum.

Body rubbing (also known as the "Princeton rub") is a common
activity, and some people find it their favorite. It's a kind of
masturbation with another, except no hands are used. You are lying
together, moving with and on each other, usually side by side or
above/below. This usually done "dry," that is without lubrication,
but oiling large parts of your bodies and then slipping'n sliding
can also be lots of fun (and messy). Not everyone likes this kind
of sex; some people find their penis just gets chafed and numb
from body hair and skin. If you get into it, one or both of you
can move at a time, up and down, wriggling about and/or thrusting
with the pelvis (tipping the pelvis up and back to move the penis).

A related activity is called interfemoral intercourse, "the Oxford
style." Here one of you lies on your back, with your thighs held
tight together. Then your friend lies on top of you, and either
dry or greasing his penis and the insides of your thighs, inserts
his penis between your legs just below your crotch. He then
thrusts his penis in and out. To some people this may seem like a
strange activity, but to others (and in some cultures) it's quite
common.

Interfemoral intercourse can also be done from behind, with one of
you lying on your stomach. This leads us to another related
method, which is thrusting between your friend's buttocks, without
entering his anus. A lubricant can also be used here. Again, some
people enjoy this way, and it has had it's place in other cultures
(the ancient Greeks, for example, called it pygisma, "buttockry").

Armpit/Knee Intercourse: If you make a tight, firm place by holding
your arm at your side or your knee bent, he can insert his penis
(lubricated if necessary) at the joint and slide in an out by
moving his body. He can even climax this say.

Another way is moving on the perineum, the space between the
testicles and anus, where the legs meet. This is a very tender
area, and when lubricated feels nice to the penis. One of you lied
on your back, bringing your knees to your chest. The other, then
lies down between his friend's legs facing him, with his penis
resting at the perineum. Body motions and thrusting will create
pleasurable sensations, and kissing is quite easy.



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